Easy come, Easy Go. . .

I have always believed that everything in this world is TRANSIENT.. . .thoughts, people, things around you and even the memories which you think will last with you forever and will flash before your eyes when you will take your final breath. When you took your first breath into this world , you were all alone. When you will take your last, you will be all alone. While you stay over here, you will meet many people who will come and influence your thinking and your life, maybe for good, maybe for bad. . .but then they too will leave you someday. No matter whether they are your parents, friends or anyone else to whom you might have given a place in your heart. They are just tenants.

But during this short period of contact you might learn things from them which can have a great impact on your life, it can change your perspective of  how you perceive things and comprehend them.

In the past 2 days I just had a one hour talk with three such people in my life and surprisingly it has made all the difference. So before I tell you what I have learnt from these three jewels in my life, I would like to really thank them for helping me out with what I might call a difficult phase. Thank you for showing me the light at the end of the tunnel.

So here are the golden words by these golden people:

* Learn to Suppress your feelings. Feel Like a Robot! Sometimes you feel like going about and sharing your              feelings with people to make yourself feel at ease but it might not always help you. No matter how much you feel like finding solace in other people's pity, it will just make you more vulnerable to your feelings and    emotions. Instead direct them towards a more constructive path.

 

* Humans are NEEDY and GREEDY. The things which they don't have, they want only that --> Greed.

   They always keep cribbing about stuff which they want rather than cherish what they have --> Need.

   They live under this illusion that their desires are actually their needs. 

* Life moves on! You gotta learn to live life as it comes. All your smiles and tears are part and parcel of this      life. If life gives you a reason to be sad then it will surely give you a reason to smile.

* Always stay happy and never put the blame of your unhappiness on someone else. They too must have had             their share of ups and downs. And whatever the other person does , he/she must have had a reason to do so, a valid reason to do so.

And to conclude, I will add mine to these - " You have no control over anybody's life, Except yours! Never think that why did the other person acted the way he did. Just let them make their own decisions. All you can do is make some for yourself so that their decisions doesn't become forced commandments for you. "