Being friendless is really thought to be a bane . . . but don't worry. . no matter how bad you might be as a person you will surely find some like minded companions.
The worst part comes when you have friends yet when you feel like sharing something you have no one around you. Being friendless is then actually a boon.
Imagine : you don't have to wait to share some special incident which might have made your day or had you cribbing all day long, you don't really have to explain every mood swing of yours/every feeling of yours/every thought of yours. . . . you just let them go by. You don't have to think before or after doing anything about your friends because you are not affected anymore by their responses. You don't have emotions like anger or sadness because you really don't care about the other person. You can have peace (without the annoying questions following you) whenever you want and chaos. . . well, that is always enough of it in this world all the time.
Sometimes I feel that people who say that they are going to die happy because they are surrounded by people whom they call friends and are lucky to have them around . . are fooling themselves. It appears to be a false self-satisfactory happiness.
Neither I have a good sense nor the right to judge people but all I know is that humans are eccentric yet self centered selfish beings. They need company / probably some other symbiotic help. . .and for that they need "friends".
Living for yourself, free from the hassles of a relationship that makes your life even more complex, is the best way to live life to the maximum.
P.S. Critics might not agree with my viewpoint but then that's what they are good at.
The worst part comes when you have friends yet when you feel like sharing something you have no one around you. Being friendless is then actually a boon.
Imagine : you don't have to wait to share some special incident which might have made your day or had you cribbing all day long, you don't really have to explain every mood swing of yours/every feeling of yours/every thought of yours. . . . you just let them go by. You don't have to think before or after doing anything about your friends because you are not affected anymore by their responses. You don't have emotions like anger or sadness because you really don't care about the other person. You can have peace (without the annoying questions following you) whenever you want and chaos. . . well, that is always enough of it in this world all the time.
Sometimes I feel that people who say that they are going to die happy because they are surrounded by people whom they call friends and are lucky to have them around . . are fooling themselves. It appears to be a false self-satisfactory happiness.
Neither I have a good sense nor the right to judge people but all I know is that humans are eccentric yet self centered selfish beings. They need company / probably some other symbiotic help. . .and for that they need "friends".
Living for yourself, free from the hassles of a relationship that makes your life even more complex, is the best way to live life to the maximum.
P.S. Critics might not agree with my viewpoint but then that's what they are good at.
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"you don't really have to explain every mood swing of yours/every feeling of yours/every thought of yours. . . . you just let them go by"
i agree 100%.
sometimes i hv a gr8 urge momentarily 2 tell sum1 bout sumthng, bt ltr m jst glad there ws no1 around :P
I get the same urge too., . but then when it just goes away. . .I feel that thanks god. . there was no one. . it wud have just made it worse. . .
"Living for yourself, free from the hassles of a relationship that makes your life even more complex, is the best way to live life to the maximum."
i do not agree. Try living alone, it's nt as gud as it sounds (i cud argue on that on a more personal medium). Love, from whomever, in whtever amount, is always gr8, and no rose buds/blooms w/o thorns.
i think god made our brains with some percentage of the same code. . :) :P
well. .yea but I dont like it when ppl are there only when they want to be. . .I know they must be having priorities. . .but then I just think that its better to be alone. . and yes Im also saying it on a more personal medium. . .:P
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