Its good to be boring!

Everyone has their own definition of fun. . of enjoyment. . I too have one but what seems to me fun, other find it just the opposite. Probably I am boring and I like doing boring stuff. . but that is what forms a part of who I am. The irony is what people think is interesting, I find that boring. So basically its all about what you like doing and what takes your mind off from things which you don't wanna think about otherwise.

I don't like watching movies and I don't like going out and having "fun" too often. . and that stereotypes me as a boring person. Worse - it sometimes makes people think that I am sad about something. 

I like solitude. . .and its not loneliness. It simply implies that I like spending time with myself more than with someone else. I am not a narcissist either. 

So when I say a no to something which my friends want to do or if my parents are going to someone's place and I refuse to accompany them, all I get to hear is - you are becoming a loner, you need to spend more time with people and be more social. Well, sometimes try to do that for a change and, from the past experiences, all I can say is that I end up getting bored. I just sit and stare at people who talk rather animatedly. And just then I am presented with another request - SPEAK! Why aren't you speaking?! 

Sorry, I am not a blabbermouth.

MORAL: Never force anyone to do something which you think is fun, cause the other person might just end up getting more bored than you can even think.